Dear Listener’s I need your help and advice, what should I do?

I have a question about a relationship that I may or may not be in. We have known each other for years and we broke up because he was not ready to commit at the time. We went our separate ways and years later we saw each other again and a lot had changed. He told me how much he wanted to be with me, but after a few disagreements about the same issues he started ignoring me. We are both Scorpios and are very strong willed and he says he is ignoring me because he does not want to argue. I am trying to step back and take it slow. We have history and I am in love with him, but he is not paying any attention to me now. I always make the first move and call him everyday. Every time I try to talk to him about this he tells me I’m starting an argument. I think he has another woman, because we haven’t been sleeping together that much. Should I give up or is this his way of punishing me for things I’ve said and how I’ve acted?
K. Thomas – Cleveland

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