Depending on the woman — flirting may show itself in several different ways. You may notice the long, seductive stares; the extra long smiles; and the exaggerated laughter. There are also episodes of excessive conversation that go way beyond a simple 2-minute chat.
The art of flirting for women can show up in several ways, so let’s explore some of them.
Women are much more subtle about flirting than men, so the physical clues aren’t always obvious. Guys are not accustomed to getting a lot of attention from women, and certainly do not get approached often. So recognizing a flirtatous move can sometimes be a bit tricky.
Here are some signs to help you determine that she is flirting with you:
Making the first move
Women hardly ever enjoy making the first move. When they do, it means the interest level has been raised. However, don’t expect a woman to flag you down and desperately ask for your attention. Most will never allow themselves to be placed in that position.
Extended looks and stares
While not considered rude in most countries, Americans usually take offense to staring and extended gazes. But in these circumstances, men don’t mind those extended looks. When a women gives you more eye attention than usual, she’s already gathered physical facts and is letting you know that you’re worth looking at.
No personal space
People are picky about personal space and women know this. Some women will narrow the distance between a man and herself if she’s flirting with him. This could be done while walking, while sitting, or while standing and having a conversation.
Body language
Probably one of the most difficult suggestions for men to pick up on. A woman’s body language may not be sexually suggestive enough for you to make a determination about her interest in you. But some key signs are: tilting the head while talking; clasping the hands behind her back while talking; and touching you or your clothes, while talking…
