Dear Relationship Expert JLS360.com
“I’ve been dating this guy for almost 3 months now. We have not had any type of sex…that’s not something that we’re focused on. Anyway, we aren’t “officially” a couple. At first, I thought I was okay with it…I liked the path we were on. But now, it seems like I’m ready for it to be official. I’ve never really been into “titles”, but all of a sudden, I want a commitment. He’s such a nice guy, has a relationship with God (actually, he’s very into the church), no children, 28, 6’4 (lol), educated, employed…he’s a perfect gentleman. He tells me all of the time that he likes me very much. He calls, texts, come to see me when he has free time (he works 2 jobs and is going to school online). He’s very busy and I know that he makes an effort to visit me. I don’t know if I’m scared of losing him or what. The thing is, I don’t want to ruin our relationship by pressuring him to make me his girlfriend (he believes in getting to know a person before committing to them…which is awesome). He is the only person I am dating, and he says I am as well. I haven’t gotten any red flags( I know no one is perfect, including myself… just saying I haven’t gotten any from him). I know that we have to truly be friends to build a solid foundation…I just..I don’t know. Do you have any advice?”
Question: What advice would you give this reader?
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